When Matt and I first stepped into the non-monogamy scene a few years back, nobody really sat us down to talk about ENM aftercare. We knew all about setting ground rules, packing safe-sex supplies, and picking out outfits, but we…
The Smug Illusion of Being “Above It” When Matt and I first took the plunge into the non-monogamy pool, we had this smug, almost arrogant belief that we were totally above the petty drama. We thought we were too secure,…
It was 3:14 AM on a rainy Tuesday during our first year in the lifestyle, and I was staring at the popcorn ceiling of our suburban bedroom, listening to Matt breathe. My stomach was in a tight, cold knot. We…
